Reality Check

This isn’t therapy. It’s not “just communicate more.” And it’s not another recycled co-parenting tip.
It’s something almost nobody in the high-conflict parenting world is talking about.

And the results… can completely change your life — and your children’s lives.

So stay with me for the next few minutes.

Because this isn’t feel-good fluff or impossible theory.

I’m showing you how other parents — parents who tried everything to get along with their ex and failed — finally found peace, reduced conflict to almost zero, and protected their kids… all through one simple approach: Parallel Parenting.

No waiting for the court to “fix” things.
No chasing your co-parent for cooperation.
No pretending to get along when it’s hurting you and your kids.

Remember That Moment?

You’re sitting in your car after yet another tense custody exchange, hands gripping the steering wheel, thinking, “There’s got to be a better way to live than this.”

So what did you do?

You searched online. You read every article about “healthy co-parenting.” You bought books, joined Facebook groups, maybe even tried mediation or a parenting coordinator.

And what happened?

You poured hours — even months — into trying to “fix” communication with your co-parent… only for the same old fights to explode again.

Or maybe you tried new parenting apps, carefully typing out polite messages… that were ignored or twisted against you.

Or you went all-in on joint therapy… until the sessions turned into just another battleground.

I know that knot in your stomach right now — that “I’ve tried everything and nothing works” feeling.

Trust me. I’ve seen it for over 20 years. And there’s a reason it keeps happening — but there’s also a way out.

My Journey From Being Trapped in My Own High-Conflict Divorce… to Helping Thousands of Parents Break Free

I don’t share this often.

Years ago, I went through a brutal, two-and-a-half year divorce — the kind filled with court battles, constant arguments, and enough stress to keep me awake for nights on end.

It was litigious, expensive, and emotionally draining. And I saw first-hand how the conflict was affecting my child.

During that time, someone said two things to me that changed everything:

“As goes the marriage, so goes the divorce.”
“Stay away from the flypaper.”

Those phrases hit me hard. They made me realize that if I kept reacting, I’d stay stuck in the same cycle forever.

That’s when I began to step back… and really look at what fuels high-conflict divorces. I realized most advice out there — from well-meaning therapists to aggressive lawyers — was only adding more gasoline to the fire.

And that’s how the High Conflict Diversion Program was born in 2002.

Since then, I’ve:

• Taught classes to parents across the U.S., Canada, Australia, New Zealand, Puerto Rico and the UK

• Trained instructors to teach the program nationwide

• Written The Black Hole of High Conflict to share my strategies

• Created and host The High Conflict Co-Parenting Podcast, reaching thousands of listeners worldwide

• Worked in family court, seeing up-close how conflict destroys families

• Guided hundreds of parents to break free from the fight and give their kids a peaceful home

Along the way, I discovered something most people in the divorce world still don’t talk about:

When conflict is this high, co-parenting isn’t the answer.

That’s where Parallel Parenting comes in — the system that allows you to raise your children without being pulled into constant communication, arguments, and emotional traps.

And now, I’ve taken everything I’ve learned in over 20 years and condensed it into a simple, no-fluff mini-course

Parallel Parenting Essentials.

The Discovery That Changed Everything

After years of coaching parents in the middle of high-conflict divorces, I noticed a pattern:
The ones who tried to co-parent in extreme conflict almost always ended up back in court, emotionally drained, and with their kids caught in the crossfire.

It didn’t matter how many books they read, therapy sessions they attended, or “communication tools” they used — the results were the same: chaos.

But when I taught a small group of parents a different approach — one that required almost no direct communication, crystal-clear boundaries, and a focus on protecting their own peace — the transformation was incredible.

No more reacting to every message.
No more being dragged into endless arguments.
No more stress bleeding into their children’s lives.

That approach became Parallel Parenting.

I couldn’t believe how quickly it worked for them — and how much calmer, safer, and happier their kids became.

That’s when I knew: in high-conflict situations, co-parenting wasn’t the answer — and Parallel Parenting needed to be shared with as many parents as possible.

Now, I’ve taken everything I’ve learned over 20 years of teaching and coaching, and distilled it into one simple, easy-to-follow mini-course that any parent can start using right away.

Reality Check

Why Parallel Parenting Solves Everything in High-Conflict Co-Parenting

Here’s what hit me after working with hundreds of parents in constant conflict:

Parallel Parenting removed EVERYTHING that made co-parenting impossible in high-conflict situations:

1. No endless text battles (peace at last!)
2. No relying on your co-parent to cooperate (freedom!)
3. No stressful in-person exchanges (hallelujah!)
4. No being dragged back into court every few months (finally!)
5. No pretending to get along when it’s hurting you and your kids (relief!)

Instead, it gave parents a system that:

1. Costs nothing to start using
2. Creates an immediate drop in conflict levels
3. Protects kids from the emotional crossfire
4. Works even if the other parent never changes
5. Puts you back in control of your time, energy, and peace

And here’s the best part — it actually helps your children grow up in a calmer, safer home environment.

 Why Parallel Parenting Works

The Opportunity Is Wide Open Right Now

While countless parents are still being told to “just communicate more” or “try harder to co-parent,” almost nobody is talking about this alternative.

Think about it: there are millions of families stuck in high-conflict situations… and almost no practical solutions built for them.

• High-conflict divorces

• Custody battles

• Co-parenting that’s turned toxic

• Kids caught in the middle

Most advice out there assumes both parents can work together — but when that’s impossible, there’s a huge gap.

That’s where Parallel Parenting Essentials steps in.

It’s a clear, step-by-step plan designed for this exact problem — and it’s working for parents who thought they had run out of options.

Parallel Parenting Essentials
Only $25

This isn’t another long, complicated parenting course that takes weeks to finish and leaves you more overwhelmed than before.

Parallel Parenting Essentials is a focused, no-fluff mini-course that distills over 20 years of high-conflict parenting expertise into clear, actionable steps you can start using immediately.

Inside, you’ll discover:

• The core principles of Parallel Parenting — and why it’s the proven alternative when co-parenting fails

• How to keep your children’s needs and peace at the center of every decision you make

• Practical techniques to create a structured, low-conflict parenting environment that works even if your co-parent doesn’t cooperate

• Methods for setting and maintaining boundaries — without guilt, arguments, or emotional traps

• Communication strategies that prevent misunderstandings and keep you out of unnecessary fights

• The key elements to include in a parenting plan so it actually works in high-conflict situations

Why just $25?
Because I want to remove every possible barrier between you and the peace your family deserves.
I’ve seen too many parents spend thousands on therapy, mediation, and courses — only to feel more stuck than before.
This mini-course is designed so you can start applying the strategies right away and feel a shift in your daily life almost immediately.

No waiting. No guessing. No permission needed from your co-parent.
Just a clear plan you can follow starting today — and keep using for years to come.

Get instant access now and take the first step toward creating the calm, stable home your children deserve.

From Chaos to Calm — One Session at a Time